Keys to Moving On
”Move On!”🚶🏾🚶Move on?. Easier said than done.
So here are some keys to “move on” in a healthy way.
🔑 1. 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬. Forgiveness is always key. Forgiveness releases people in love, trusting that God will vindicate and bring justice in the way that He chooses. Un-forgiveness also will put you in a prison. The worse thing is for others to move on while you’re still stuck in bitterness and anger.
🔑2. 𝐊𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧. Not everyone is called to your next/now Season. The worse thing is to bring someone into the new when they were only called to walk with you in a specific season for a specific reason.
🔑3. 𝐔𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 . How can you expect them to understand, in one conversation, what you received from wrestling with God in days/months/years. Not everyone is going to understand your radical-ness, simply because they don’t understand your journey with GOD. So it is better that you understand that everyone won’t understand.
🔑4. 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐓𝐢𝐞𝐬 (𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬). Many times we can find ourselves in unhealthy connections with people, places and things. We can be tied to a region, but God said move. We can be tied to an organization, when God said resign, quit, step down; your time is over. We must be like Abraham and be willing to leave. To do this we must break every tie that would try to keep us in a place that God has called us out of.
🔑5. 𝐒𝐞𝐭 𝐁𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬. Along with cutting soul ties we must also set boundaries. Everyone can’t be inside of your inner circle . Don’t let someone invite themselves into a place you haven’t. Don’t give someone influence into your life that they shouldn’t have. Setting boundaries is a healthy way to protect you and others. Setting healthy boundaries is wise and helps your heart to heal and move on. You might have to unfollow, unfriend and/or block someone on FB, Instagram etc. it’s for your benefit.
🔑6. 𝐈𝐭 𝗪𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝’𝐯𝐞 𝐄𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐔𝐩 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞, 𝐀𝐧𝐲𝐰𝐚𝐲. In most cases, not everyone, place and/or job is called to your whole life. You are blessed when their are those that will walk with you in that way. But many times people and places are only called to you for a season. So we must learn how to value those seasons and see the beauty in them. Keep it in perspective. The good and the bad. It worked something into your life. All things work together for the good to those who love God and called according to His purpose.